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George Vaillant, M.D., Harvard psychiatrist and the third lead researcher of the Harvard Grant Study, is unlike anyone else I have encountered. Like so many scientists, he possesses a superior capacity for intellectual creativity and objectivity. Vaillant also fearlessly expresses compassion. In person, he unabashedly emits warmth with his huge smile and his long-lived yet still twinkling eyes. This compassion is a surprising and welcome quality in the world of academics. In his new book, Triumphs of Experience: The Men of the Harvard Grant Study, readers will most certainly be touched by his strong empathic nature and fascinated by the findings he reveals about males of our species.
“To understand lives takes a lifetime.” – George Vaillant, M.D., author of Triumphs of Experience: The Men of the Harvard Grant Study
The Harvard Grant Study is the longest scientific study of male development and adjustment to life. It began in 1938 and is still active today, 75 years later. The study conducted an in-depth examination of the lives of 268 Harvard University sophomore men (classes of 1942, ‘43, and ‘44) commencing at age 19 and following participants to the end of their lives. Some are still alive. They include blue-collar workers, professors, artists, and a former U.S. president. The purpose of the Study was to “transcend medicine’s usual occupation with pathology by learning something about optimum health and potential, and the conditions that promote them.” The study has uncovered clear predictors of physical and psychological health of men.Vaillant joined the study as head researcher 45 years ago when he was only 32 years old. As he notes throughout the book, this study is a telescope of sorts: it has gathered valuable insights that suggest the variables that predict success and optimum health of men. The variables studied were diverse and included (but are not limited to) childhood environment, genetics, maturation, work, alcohol use and abuse, coping styles, marriage, and social support. Researchers also conducted interviews with three generations of relatives. As you can imagine, 75+ years, 268 men, information from their relatives, and thorough objective psychosocial and biomedical health data have generated a vast reservoir of information about the antecedents of optimum health and success for men.
The Gift of Longitudinal Prospective Research
The Grant Study employed a longitudinal prospective design in which participants continue to be followed in real time, information is collected on numerous variables of interest as their lives progress, and outcomes are identified as they occur. This is unlike retrospective designs in which the outcomes are known before the variables are identified, which can lead to errors in distinguishing between causes and correlations. In prospective longitudinal research, the outcomes and what led to them are documented throughout the person’s life. Researchers can look at behavior in-the-moment, which makes it easier to see what predicts future behaviors. The dynamic resource of information gives context to the outcomes.A Glimpse Into the Findings
The entire list of interesting discoveries documented in this book is much too long to encompass in a short review, but I’ll share a few captivating teasers.
The men supplied thorough information about their biomedical and psychosocial health. A few of the biomedical variables were EEG, scrotum length, and blood pressure. Some aspects of psychosocial health were childhood experiences, first marriages, divorces, second marriages, lost loves, first jobs, active duty in WWII, volunteer work, friends, children, grandchildren, psychological difficulties, being institutionalized for major disorders, and alcoholism, as well as participants’ greatest regrets and joys.
In line with the study’s purpose, the book describes Vaillant’s Decathlon of Flourishing. The Decathlon is a set of 10 accomplishments in late life that covered many different facets of success. Examples include good subjective and objective physical and mental health at age 80, being in a good marriage between ages 60 and 85, and being close to kids between ages 60 and 75. He wanted to see how and if these accomplishments correlated with three predictor variables:
- Physical constitution
- Social advantage
- A loving childhood
These three variables often showed to have very significant associations with late-life success, as researchers processed the goldmine of valuable information.
Many of the major takeaway findings you’ll learn from this book about healthy and unhealthy male adaptation to life will likely astound you. Listed below are 10 findings to whet your appetite for more,
The most important contributor to joy and success in adult life is love, and the second greatest contributor is the individual’s involuntary coping styles.
- What goes right in childhood predicts the future far better than what goes wrong. A warm childhood predicts joy and success in adult life.
- The capacity for intimate relationships predicts flourishing in all aspects of men’s lives.
- Marriages become happier after age 70.
- Alcoholism was the most important factor in divorces.
- As men approach old age, their boyhood relationships with their mothers were associated with their effectiveness at work, continuing to work until age 70, and late-life income. Men’s warm relationships with their fathers (but not with mothers) seem to enhance their capacity to play. Good father-son relationships predicted subjective life satisfaction at age 75.
- After age 40, IQ does not count for much.
- Men’s military rank once discharged from WWII was significantly correlated with a cohesive home atmosphere in childhood and warm relationships with mother and siblings. Body build, parental social class, endurance on a treadmill, and IQ were not associated with attained military rank in any way.
- Of the 26 personality traits assessed when the men were in college, the one called Practical, Organized best predicted objective mental health at ages 30 through 50.
- Men who live to be 100 years old are usually pretty active at age 95.
Who this book is for?
“The findings[….]give those of us who are curious about our own lives, and the lives of those we cherish, plenty to think about.” – George Vaillant, M.D.
The 400+ pages inside this book are filled with surprising findings and powerful stories about the men of the Grant Study. While reading these stories, I was often and happily moved to tears. Anybody who is interested in human behavior will find this book fascinating. Vaillant inserts his own heart into his conclusions.Curious, introspective males who care about their own well-being will likely find this book intriguing and helpful for understanding how to create a deeply satisfying life.
I can’t think of a more reliable guide for parents who want the best for their little boys. Triumphs of Experience suggests ways to construct the kind of environment that is most likely to set a son up for success in work, love, and life as a grown man.
Budding psychologists, counselors, marriage and family therapists, and individuals who are captivated by psychoanalysis and the human condition will discover that with each finding they learn, the next one is just as provocative.
Woman will gain a more holistic understanding of the men they care about, whether they be husband, father, son, brother, grandfather, or friend, along with ways to support their optimal growth and satisfaction.
In a Nutshell
Vaillant writes this deeply scientific book with humility and compassion. The discoveries from the Grant Study are a major contribution to scientific understanding of the male lifespan. He always describes the participants with dignity and respect.
My heart was touched by the curiosity, wisdom, and humanity with which he writes about the lives of men who were once young boys, some of whom have endured a great deal of pain and loneliness. Vaillant notes that, contrary to popular belief, people really can change over the course of their lives. Additionally, he urges that being black-and-white about science is no way to truly understand and learn from human behavior.
As I see it, Triumphs of Experience is a secular bible of sorts: if you are a man or love one and if you have faith in science, you can confidently use this book to understand and promote optimal male functioning.
“…Our lives when we are old are the sum of all of our loves. It is important, therefore, that we not let any of these go to waste.” – George Vaillant, M.D.
Vaillant, G. (2012). Triumphs of Experience: The Men of the Harvard Grant Study. Cambridge, Massachusetts: Belknap Press.