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Savoring Camp Happy Times

written by Louis Alloro 28 August 2009

Louis Alloro, M.Ed., MAPP '08, is a cofounder of a 6-month Certificate in Applied Positive Psychology Program, Fellow at the Center for Advancement of Wellbeing at George Mason University, and founder of SOMO Leadership Labs, a community intervention. Web site. Full Bio.

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Hello Mudder, Hello Fadder

Campers Around Flagpole

Campers Around Flagpole

Greetings from summer sleep-away camp. Really. I write this tucked away in the woods in northeastern Pennsylvania – a tiny spot of heaven called Camp Happy Times – aptly named for a place where two hundred kids who have or have had cancer come for a week’s time of fun, fun, and more fun. They come here to celebrate the joy of life. Essentially, they come here to be kids, not just “kids with cancer.”


Campers range from 5-21 years of age and come from all walks of life, some underprivileged. I come here as a volunteer counselor, along with nearly one hundred other volunteer counselors, administrators, and medical personnel, many of whom were once campers (and thus survivors!).

Together, we fill this campground with such life, you’d hardly know the physical, social, and emotional hardships many of these people, young and old, have faced in surviving cancer.

The Positive Psychology Behind this Place

Wearing the lens of positive psychology, I offer below just a quick snippet of what makes this place work:

Camper Climging Rock Wall

Camper Climging Rock Wall

Resiliency – It amazes me to think of the hardship these young beings have been up against: diagnosis, treatment, wondering . . . , being different. Resilience to them is an ordinary phenomenon.

Forgiveness – Along lines similar to resiliency, there is an anger many survivors face for which forgiveness becomes important. It reminds me of James Pawelski’s blog post on the ‘yielded life’ which can be read here. It’s about accepting what is and re-framing in order to grow and heal physically, socially, and emotionally.

Hope – This week, I witnessed a young boy climb the rock wall and operate his own kayak. When he got off the bus a few days ago, he was sitting in a wheel chair. “You know what?” he told me. “I think I can do anything I put my mind to.” This is hope, enveloped in the spirit of possibility, self-efficacy.

Positive Emotion – Of course, this is summer sleep-away camp! Although we’re only here for a week, this is a fun week filled with sports, boating, campfires, sing-a-longs, sporting events of all kinds, arts and crafts, cooking, and a talent show. The fishing contest starts at 6 am and we’re going nonstop with sports and activities until lights out at 11 pm. Lots of positive emotion and lots of activity and motion.

Other People Matter – There is an understanding and compassion at Camp Happy Times. There is respect; there is love. Camp gives these kids a place to regain their spirits. It is here where many campers find space (and support) to thrive – on the rock-climbing wall, the boys vs. girls fishing contest, or during the many other activities that fill our days. Walk around the 200-acre campground and you’ll see: smiles abound. Support and encouragement do too.

Louis in middle of cake eating contest

Louis in middle of cake eating contest

Social Contagion Factor – It is amazing to be amongst the energy of such philanthropy and resiliency. It reminds me of the social contagion factor – that it feels good to feel and do good, especially when other people are feeling and doing good, too. Part of this spirit is derived from inter-generational energy (3+ generations of campers and counselors), the kind that also fuels the “Magic of MAPP.” The volunteer director, Millie Finkel, is a 70-something year old spitfire, with a heart of gold and a vision, which has kept this camp alive for over a quarter-century. “It’s all about giving these kids an experience they can’t forget,” she says.


And it’s true. Even for me! Having never gone to camp as a child, Camp Happy Times allows me to savor a part of my own childhood joy along with a group of kids who, during their short time on Earth, have endured more than some people do in a lifetime. They inspire me.

“I wish I could stay here for another week,” one of my boy campers in Bunk 9 said.

“I don’t want the week to end, Louis,” another one pleaded less than half way through the week.

A Good Place to Yield

I took these moments to instill lessons of mindfulness by stopping (sometimes in groups of five or more) asking them to realize that we had a choice: we could savor this moment, by remembering the awesomeness of what IS right here, right now OR we could sit in anticipatory anxiety of it being over. The choice was clear. Then again, it is often clear when we’re in spaces of broaden-and-build, hope, and love.

Author’s Note: Camp Happy Time is fully funded by The Valerie Fund, a nonprofit organization based in Maplewood, NJ supporting kids with cancer and other blood disorders and their families. There is no cost to kids to come here and 80 cents of every dollar goes directly back to them. Perhaps you’ll contribute to this great cause by clicking here. Or, maybe I’ll see you next summer in the bunks? If you want to learn more about serving as a counselor, please contact me.

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Laura 17 August 2010 - 9:29 pm

YOU are such an inspiration, Louis. The world is a little better of because YOU are in it!

chris G'Froerer 18 August 2010 - 8:23 am

You are doing what I wanted to do many years ago but didn’t – I admire your selflessness, inspiration and enthusiasm which is so obvious in your writing. You make such a difference to each of these children. And yes, I agree, the world is a btter place because you are in it. I have picked up some great tips from your writing and am, at last, studying Positive Psychology and using what I have learned in my work with people with stress related disorders. May good health keep you hearing the call of your calling. Chris

Louis Alloro 18 August 2010 - 10:40 am

Thanks so much Laura & Chris for your comments. It really is a great week here. Lots of fun & meaningful moments with some really incredible kids. They’re the inspirations.

Chris, would love to hear more about your work. Ping me here or louis@louisalloro.com

To hearing the call — Louis

Eric Bryant 10 January 2011 - 1:01 pm

Louis this is a great way to show the world what camp is all about, thanks for sharing the story!!!!


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