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Positively Caroline is Positively Inspiring (Book Review)

written by Carin Rockind 27 June 2013

Carin Rockind, MAPP '10, is an empowerment coach and inspirational speaker. Carin holds the simple philosophy that we each have a unique purpose on earth and we're happy when living it. Working with individuals and companies, she combines her expertise in Positive Psychology with experience as a trauma survivor and former Fortune 500 exec to support professional women to be truly happy and wildly successful. For more information, visit Website, Facebook, Twitter. Full bio. Carin's articles are here.

When a woman bares her soul, she nurtures us all.

Upon first glance, executive coach and positive psychology practitioner Caroline Miller appears to be perfect. With a striking face, slender figure, successful business, and six published books to her name, one might even assume that her life has been easy.



Such an assumption would be dead wrong. In her newest book, Positively Caroline: How I beat bulimia for good… and found real happiness, the author discloses that she has struggled her entire life to be happy. Through this beautifully written memoir, at times painfully raw, Miller takes readers along her winding journey of abuse, bulimia, bankruptcy, and depression to eventually finding true happiness within. In precise detail, she bares the depths of her soul so that readers can learn and grow with her.

Though the subtitle suggests that this is a book about bulimia recovery, it is relevant to us all. Hers is the story of every person who has faced struggles and setbacks. (And let’s face it, who hasn’t?)

Refusing to be a Victim

However, Miller refused to be a victim. She fought for happiness with perseverance, authenticity, and humility. She was not too proud to seek therapy, medication, and education to find happiness. Furthermore, what makes this book exceptional is that, as an expert in Positive Psychology, the scientific study of well-being, Miller infuses her stories with research-based theory and tools that readers can apply to navigate their own life challenges. As she so eloquently states, “Life is really nothing but a series of jolts and setbacks, followed by resilience and positive growth.”

Her ability to bounce back, rise above challenges and improve her lot in life is perhaps the book’s greatest gift. With her candor and strength, she teaches readers they too can survive and thrive through challenges. In this manner, readers learn what happiness actually is. She reminds us to tune into intuition instead of pursuing external rewards and “shoulds.” She teaches us to appreciate what is, to cultivate nurturing relationships with love and gratitude, and to approach life with grace and gusto.

Special Relevance to Teenage Girls

On a professional note, while this book is for everyone and may be of particular interest to addicts in recovery, I also urge parents of teenage girls to read it. In psychology circles, it is well known that women are twice as likely to suffer depression as men. However, it is not as well known that this disparity begins between the ages of 13 and 16, as girls begin to feel unworthy. Exacerbated by images in the media of body perfection, girls need to know that they are beautiful and worthy as is. They need to know that they are perfect in their imperfections and adorable in their quirks. In the book, Caroline takes this challenge head on when she learns that she is having a baby girl. All of us who love, parent, and work with girls can learn from her.

Finally, in reading Positively Caroline, you can’t help but fall in love with the author. You will laugh, cry, and become her cheerleader. For those who have read Miller’s previous books and/or respected her professional accomplishments, this delicate insight into her soul will likely make you want to be her best friend. She will inspire you to be your best, and this is the mark of truly inspirational, positive literature.

Editor’s Note: This book extends the story that Caroline Miller told in her book, My Name is Caroline, written 25 years ago about her struggles with bulimia. In an earlier article for PPND, The Happiness of Beating Bulimia for Good, Miller pointed out that stories about eating disorders often are told in a way that undermines hope. She tells her story as a long-term survivor to support the hope of others facing similar challenges. As she says in that article, “My recovery was sparked one night at a self-help group for recovering compulsive eaters when a woman — who looked a lot like me — spoke honestly and forthrightly about her long battle with bulimia, and said that she was now in recovery. That moment changed my life.” She tells her story to pass on the benefit she received that night. Her 2007 article includes 11 actions that she took to build her own recovery.



Miller, C. A. (2013). Positively Caroline: How I beat bulimia for good… and found real happiness. New York: Cogent Publishing.

Miller, C. A. (2007). The Happiness of Beating Bulimia for Good. Positive Psychology News.

Miller, C. A. & Frisch, M. B. (2009), Creating Your Best Life: The Ultimate Life List Guide. New York: Sterling.

Miller, C. A. (1988). My Name is Caroline. Doubleday.

Hankin, B. L. & Abramson, L. Y. (2001). Development of gender differences in depression: an elaborated cognitive vulnerability-transactional stress theory. Psychological Bulletin 127(6), 773 – 796.

Levine, M. P., Smolak, L. & Hayden, H. (1995). The relation of sociocultural factors to eating attitudes and behaviors among middle school girls. Journal of Early Adolescence, 14, 471-490.

Nolen-Hoeksema, S. (1990). Sex Differences in Depression. Stanford University Press.

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Elaine O'Ntien 28 June 2013 - 2:24 am

Thanks Carin for your excellent review, and especially to Caroline for shàring her inspirational story that truly resonated with me.

Bob P 28 June 2013 - 7:36 am

“Depths of her soul” in a discussion of positive psychology is heartening to me. PP seems to include happiness and more succussful functioning as parts
of its definition. How do growth, creativity, love, or beauty fit into that definition? Seems to me like “soul” is a big step in that direction. I like it.

Therapist Los Angeles 3 July 2013 - 3:18 pm

I look forward to reading this book. Coming out about bulimia is important.

Gold Price 9 July 2013 - 2:16 pm

Written beautifully and compellingly, this book shows any reader how building (or rebuilding) a healthy life can be achieved if one is willing to truly think through her actions and set her sights on new goals .. Caroline’s story is one everyone should hear.

Elaine O'Brien 11 July 2013 - 9:53 am

Cheers Carin and PPND Friends!
Caroline, you are brave, true, zesty and a friend.
Love you.e

Aida Cherry 11 July 2013 - 4:39 pm

Maybe I am a bit biased. Certainly, I love my mother and believe her to be an incredible person. But I love Caroline the character in a way that any reader can, and have learned from her experiences through her writing and self-reflection. Positively Caroline is, broadly, a book about dealing with life. It tackles this ambitious task through the specific and personal lens of recovery from bulimia, but its message is universal: know yourself, improve yourself, and love yourself.

Kendrick Mendez 15 July 2013 - 12:38 pm

Written beautifully and compellingly, this book shows any reader how building (or rebuilding) a healthy life can be achieved if one is willing to truly think through her actions and set her sights on new goals .. Caroline’s story is one everyone should hear.


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