As the author was in her 30’s when she wrote the book, she stopped the book with life in the decade of the 50’s. In her follow up book, New Passages, Sheehey (1995) creates a “New Map of Adult Life.” In this map, there are three major stages of life:
- Provisional adulthood from 18-30
- First adulthood from 30-45
- Second adulthood from 45-85+
Like Sheehey, Erik Erikson (1959) conceptualized adulthood in three stages too: Young Adulthood (Intimacy vs. Isolation), Middle-Age Adulthood (Generativity vs. Stagnation) and Older Adult (Integrity vs. Despair).
So, why do I mention these life stages here? I cannot help but wonder how positive psychology impacts people in different life stages. Surely there are theories of positive psychology that hold true for all life stages, but perhaps they manifest themselves differently at different times in life. While it seems likely that Barbara Fredrickson’s Broaden and Build theory, the practice of gratitude, and the process of visioning described by Laura King hold true at all stages of life, perhaps Barry Schwartz’s theory of “Maximizers and Satisfiers” changes over stages of life development. As we get older, are we more willing to satisfice on certain decisions? As we get older, does our ability to monitor our emotional intelligence, as described by Salovey and colleagues (and highlighted in Nick Hall’s earlier PositivePsychologyNews.com article) change?Perhaps the most interesting question for positive psychologists is how the search for meaning changes through the lifespan. Whether the pillars of positive psychology are the pleasant life, the engaged life and the meaningful life, or if positive relationships and accomplishment are added to the triumvirate, it is clear that how we feel about all of these things changes dramatically as we age. As positive psychologists we need to expand our understanding of the science of positive psychology to include the dimension of life stages.
As every psychologist and life coach will tell you, the issues faced by 20 year olds are very different from those faced by 60 year olds. They grapple with different kinds of questions. It is our responsibility as good scientists and practitioners to ask questions about how the psychology we are researching and creating addresses the needs of these different populations. Understanding the different kinds of positive psychology that reflect different demographics, we will be able to craft interventions to address the kind of questions that preoccupy the positive psychology of each age. This new mandate for the study of positive psychology should be researched, examined, and put into practice with care.
Perhaps if we are successful as positive psychologists in finding better ways to manage the transitions between life stages, Gail Sheehy would have to change the subtitle of her book from “Predictable Crises of Adult Life” to something more soothing like “Predictable Transitions in Adult Life.”
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