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Inception: Finding Positive Psychology in a Movie
July 29, 2010 – 10:45 am | 2 Comments
<em>Inception</em>: Finding Positive Psychology in a Movie

The film, Inception, explores the phenomenon of ideas. Where do they start? How are they influenced? Can we extract ideas from each other, and when we do, to whom do they belong? Can we cause others to incept (take in) ideas by influencing them to think what we want them to think? The film shows how these powers can be used for good as well as evil.

Take Me to Pandora, or The Positive Psychology of Avatar
January 29, 2010 – 10:40 am | 14 Comments
Take Me to Pandora, or The Positive Psychology of Avatar

I want to travel to Pandora, the fictional planet depicted in Avatar.  I saw James Cameron’s newest film that has rocked box offices since its release in December on I-MAX 3-D and have since …

Walking the Talk II: Seeing What Others See
November 29, 2009 – 1:26 pm | 6 Comments
Walking the Talk II: Seeing What Others See

It’s all by matter of connection. Empathetic relationships are what predict successful lives. George Vailliant has shown this in the Harvard Men’s Study of Adult Development and in his PPND article, Yes I stand by …

Walking the Talk: Individual or Collective?
October 29, 2009 – 1:41 pm | 22 Comments
Walking the Talk: Individual or Collective?

One of the main principles of social psychology and positive psychology is that we are social creatures.  On the other hand, I see a big discrepancy when I hear of research by Dutch organizational researcher …

Focusing on Focus
September 29, 2009 – 4:27 pm | 6 Comments
Focusing on Focus

I am driven to distraction. It’s just what is and what it’s always been.
“No grass grows under his feet,” my mom used to say of me as a small boy, because I was always moving, …

Savoring Camp Happy Times
August 28, 2009 – 10:20 pm | No Comment
Savoring Camp Happy Times

Hello Mudder, Hello Fadder
Greetings from summer sleep-away camp. Really. I write this tucked away in the woods in northeastern Pennsylvania – a tiny spot of heaven called Camp Happy Times – aptly named for …

(Film Review) UP: The Power of Now for New & Old Adventures
June 28, 2009 – 12:22 pm | 4 Comments
(Film Review) UP: The Power of Now for New & Old Adventures

Last week I saw (from the first row, and in 3-D) Disney Pixar’s Up , an animated film about life, adventure, and friendship. The film certainly pulled on my heart strings in a very “other-people-matter” positive-psychology way. The film also speaks to this month’s theme of fun and play. [...]

Not good enough? Not smart enough? Not pretty enough?
April 29, 2009 – 10:53 am | 25 Comments
Not good enough? Not smart enough? Not pretty enough?

The voices in our heads can be real buzz-kills. “I’m not whatever enough.” I should be (doing) X, I should be (doing) Y, I should be (doing) Z. Some call this voice “the gremlin” or saboteur. Whatever you call it, these voices have harmful effects. Our own, self-deprecating mind chatter can become our reality.

From Ho Hum Holidays to a Whole Lot of Fun
March 29, 2009 – 10:52 am | 7 Comments
From Ho Hum Holidays to a Whole Lot of Fun

I have had the good fortune of being born into a large, Italian family, for which I am utterly and completely grateful…. Communitas is a ritual-building process that inspires and revitalizes while reaffirming relationships within a community, state University of Virginia psychologist Jonathan Haidt and his colleagues. According to Anthropologist Victor Turner, building communitas is an essential step to activating a community to healthy family functioning, healthy child development, and other dimensions of well-being.

What is the Top Action We Can Take to Improve Schools?
February 28, 2009 – 4:22 pm | 30 Comments
What is the Top Action We Can Take to Improve Schools?

Why does school often feel bad for kids? As a student, I often felt I wasn’t good enough: who I was and what the world expected me to be were at odds. As a result, I felt marginalized and alone at school. I felt voiceless.

And then I became a teacher. Finally! On the other side of the desk. But there, much to my chagrin, I saw many students—and teachers and parents with similar plights: sad, alone, and depressed—rat-racing, getting by—not enough.

Louis Alloro
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