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How Not to Be Your Job
By Sherif Arafa  
April 20, 2016 – 1:53 pm | 2 Comments
Time to play with others

Dear reader, let’s think together: What would happen if you are disconnected from your job or studies right now? Who would you be then, and how would you spend your time? How would you see your roles in life beyond the context of work/study, and who are the important people to you?

Close Connections are Only Part of the Solution
By Homaira Kabir  
March 7, 2016 – 10:29 am | 5 Comments
Unity

Perhaps I don’t need to fear the world I leave behind for my children. Perhaps technology is paving the way for them to come together as a common humanity.

Getting (More of) What You Want (Book Review)
By Lisa Sansom  
March 3, 2016 – 10:21 am | No Comment
 

Every little bit helps to understand what’s really going on and how your perspective, thoughts, words, and emotions can change, for better or for worse, the final outcome of negotiation with regards to both value and relationship.

We Don’t Need More Empathy in Leadership
By Daphne Scott  
January 27, 2016 – 1:41 pm | 5 Comments
Empathy

The latest buzz in leadership is all about empathy, with many calling for more of it in our leadership style. The theory goes that if leaders were more empathetic, we wouldn’t have situations like the no-holds-barred culture that Kantor and Streitfeld described at Amazon. But is a lack of empathy really the problem?

Engaging with Death
By Homaira Kabir  
November 25, 2015 – 6:46 am | 5 Comments
Space Debris

The twins had been studying the last ice age in class, and on this particular day, had watched a short video clip about a large asteroid hitting our planet unexpectedly. As we discussed it over lunch, my daughter threw me an unexpected question.

“What would you do if you knew that an asteroid was going to hit our planet in two years time?”

Being Called (Book Review)
By Jeremy McCarthy  
November 10, 2015 – 12:22 pm | 2 Comments
 

At some point or another we all wrestle with questions around why we are here and how to find purpose in life. Being Called is a great introduction to what we can glean from these experiences in the modern world. Sometimes it is a powerful vision of a possible future that pulls us along, pushing us in a new direction, with no regard whatsoever for how we got where we are.

Diving Into Vulnerability
By Homaira Kabir  
October 8, 2015 – 11:21 am | 7 Comments
Brokenness

This kind of selfless love requires that we sit with our uncertainties and fears and yet assure our children that they are not alone. It requires that we refrain from fixing the cracks and fissures in the urge of making their lives perfect. It requires that we contain our impulses and desires and live in the hope of creating something far more beautiful than perfection.

Compassion as a Coping Mechanism
By Alicia Assad  
September 29, 2015 – 9:47 am | 6 Comments
Alicia with her children

In an earlier article, I wrote about 7 positive psychology behaviors that helped me survive some very traumatic experiences. As I approach the end of another pregnancy, I find myself feeling anxious and over-protective. Looking for ways to stay calm, I’ve found an 8th important behavior: experiencing and acting on compassion for the sufferings of others.

Slowing Down in an Age of Speed
By Homaira Kabir  
September 7, 2015 – 3:17 pm | 9 Comments
Hush of dawn

Infatuation with speed is a characteristic of our times. We live in the fastest phase of human history. That can lead to what Larry Dossey in 1982 termed time-sickness, as we become fearful of missing out. The ability to stay with the discomfort of life’s paradoxes and our own ignorance and to remain patient and still while questions and answers grow in never-ending cycles, requires a certain mental toughness that seems to be on its way out in a world in a hurry.

Growing through Adversity
By Alicia Assad  
August 3, 2015 – 10:57 am | 11 Comments
Both boys needing me at once

Two years ago, my two-year-old son suffered a severe scald burn covering 16 percent of his body. My unborn baby had a birth defect needing attention. In the year-and-a-half that followed, I saw my boys through four surgeries. I went through two surgeries myself after a complicated second trimester pregnancy loss. Seven particular tools from positive psychology helped me come through some very difficullt times. I believe I have experienced posttraumatic growth following these adversities, and Roepke and Seligman’s recent article helps me see why.

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