Bridget Grenville-Cleave, MAPP graduate of the University of East London, is a UK-based positive psychology consultant, trainer and writer. She is author of Introducing Positive Psychology: A Practical Guide (2012), and The Happiness Equation with Dr Ilona Boniwell. She regularly facilitates school well-being programs and Positive Psychology Masterclasses for personal and professional development. Find her on LinkedIn, Facebook and Twitter @BridgetGC. Website. Full bio. Her articles are here.
The chief value of money lies in the fact that one lives in a world in which it is overestimated.
H. L. Mencken (1880 – 1956)
Readers of my previous articles in Positive Psychology News Daily may remember that one of my fascinations with positive psychology is the existence of its many paradoxes. Some of these have acquired official labels, such as
- The Strength of Weak Ties (from the field of sociology rather than psychology, but I think it fits well in discussions of the importance of social relationships).
Other paradoxes are discussed in positive psychology circles, although not all have research evidence to support them, such as
- The inherent weakness in overdoing your character strengths
- Changes which lead to personal growth and higher eudaimonic well-being are not necessarily accompanied by higher positive emotion
- We continue to think that the acquisition of tangible, material possessions will increase our happiness, although research suggests that it’s the intangible, ephemeral nature of our experiences which does.
So as soon as I came across this new research report “Money Giveth, Money Taketh Away: the Dual Effect of Wealth on Happiness” by Jordi Quoidbach, Elizabeth Dunn and colleagues, my eyes lit up. The researchers were interested in finding out whether there’s any evidence to support the widely-held belief that experiencing the best things in life (their examples are surfing Oahu’s famous North Shore or dining at Manhattan’s 4-star restaurant Daniel, but you can substitute any that you hanker after) undermines your ability to enjoy life’s little pleasures, things like sunny days, cold beers, and chocolate.
Often people explain their desire for more money in terms of providing the opportunity to buy and enjoy more possessions or experiences, in other words, it’s not the money per se that they want but what the money gives them access to. We already know that the ability to savor is central to our well-being – it’s one of the empirically-tested interventions. Jordi Quoidbach and colleagues go further – perhaps even thinking about money might lead people to believe that luxury possessions or experiences are obtainable, which might in turn undermine their ability to savor and lead them to take the everyday pleasures for granted.
Study One: How does priming with thoughts about money affect savoring?
The paper outlines two studies carried out with European and Canadian university staff and students. The first study was designed to test whether thinking about money has a causal impact on savoring. Study participants were randomly assigned to one of two conditions:
- Experimental condition to prime with money: participants completed a questionnaire that displayed a photo of a large pile of Euro bills
- Control condition: participants completed the same questionnaire with the same photo, but the photo was blurred beyond recognition
Participants completed the following questionnaires:
- the Savoring Positive Emotion Scale, which includes 6 detailed descriptions of situations which give rise to the positive emotions of contentment, joy, awe, excitement, pride and gratitude. After reading the scenario, participants were asked to chose the response(s) which best characterized their typical behaviour. Each scenario was followed by 8 possible reactions including 4 savoring strategies (displaying positive emotions non-verbally, staying present in the moment, thinking about the event before and afterwards, and telling other people about the experience).
- the Subjective Happiness Scale
- two open ended questions about their ideal income and how much money they would need to live a life of their dreams
- to report their life savings in a scale ranging from 1 (under 1000 Euros) to 7 (over 75,000 Euros).
Participants were also asked
Current wealth, money prime and savoring: Participants’ wealth significantly predicted lower ability to savor positive emotions, and those who were simply primed to think about money by looking at a photo of a pile of Euros as they completed the questionnaire exhibited significantly lower savoring scores than those who didn’t see the photo.
Current wealth, savoring and happiness: In line with previous research, Study 1 showed that savoring ability positively predicted happiness, that there was a modest but reliable relationship between wealth and happiness, and that savoring ability suppressed the relationship between wealth and happiness.
In summary, the study suggests that wealth may not actually deliver the happiness you’d expect, because it undermines savoring.
Study two: Experiencing Chocolate
In the second study, participants completed a questionnaire about their attitudes to chocolate. The questionnaire was presented in a binder, in which an adjacent page showed materials from an ‘unrelated study’ including a picture of money or a neutral photo. The participants were then asked to eat a piece of chocolate and to complete a follow-up questionnaire.The participants were observed surreptitiously as they ate the chocolate. The observers measured the amount of time the participants spent eating the chocolate and rated how much enjoyment they showed. The results were controlled for gender because the women spent significantly more time savoring the chocolate than the men. I wonder if the reverse would have been true for a glass of cold beer!
The participants who’d been primed with the photo of money spent significantly less time eating the chocolate and displayed significantly less enjoyment than those who didn’t see the photo of money. In other words, simply being reminded of wealth may undermine your ability to savor a pleasurable experience.
Returning to the opening point about paradoxes, it seems that wealthier individuals report lower savoring ability, and even being reminded of wealth produces the same negative impact on savoring as actual wealth. The researchers suggest that you needn’t actually visit the pyramids of Egypt or spend a week at the legendary Banff spas in Canada for your savoring ability to be impaired – simply knowing that these peak experiences are readily available may increase your tendency to take life’s small pleasures for granted (p4).
So now that you know that wealth and being reminded of wealth undermines your ability to savor, will you look at your wealth, your desire for money, or those luxury items or experiences that you hanker after in a different light? Will you consciously spend more time looking out for and savoring life’s smaller pleasures, rather than strive for the money to acquire the larger ones?
Bryant, F.B. (1989). A four-factor model of perceived control: Avoiding, coping, obtaining and savoring. Journal of personality, 57, 773-797.
Bryant, F.B., Smart, C.M., & King, S.P. (2005). Using the past to enhance the present: Boosting happiness through positive reminiscence. Journal of Happiness Studies, 6, 227–260. Available for purchase here.
Bryant, F. & Veroff, J. (2007) Savoring: A new model of positive experience.. Mahwah, New Jersey: Lawrence Erlbaum Associates.
Quoidbach, J., Dunn, E.W., Petrides, K.V. & Mikolajczak, M. (2010). Money giveth, money taketh away: The dual effect if wealth on happiness. Psychological Science 21 (6), 759-763. Available for purchase here.
My yacht! courtesy of antiguan_life
Cold beer courtesy of niel schubert
Tiffany’s courtesy of Sabarella
Labor Day in the park courtesy of craig1black